You can be a perfectionist, and not throw a hissy fit when things aren't the way you want.
>an antisocial ramsay would just throw your stuff
A social Ramsy would refuse to eat your food, but not throw it at you or have a giant baby fit about it. Of course no one would watch him on TV if he was calm and collected.
I think you're confusing antisocial personality disorder with antisocial behavior. I am not diagnosing Torvalds with anything, just describing his behavior.
an antisocial ramsay would just throw your stuff no matter what even you did well, for the sake of messing with your head