check out maslow pyramid of needs. you're on level 3.
for me it goes something like:
1. body - food, water, shelter, sleep. check
2. safety - freedom, stability. check
3. love and belonging: friends & family. check
4. self realization: prestige, respect, achievements.. ???? that's your next step.
5. the dream: full complete realization of ones potential.
read up on this thing, check it out.
also maybe useful questions to ask:
1. how is my last month going to look like - how do I wanna die. invision it.
2. maybe think. what would you do if you only had week, month, year to live?
maybe go do it? is it realy impossibly to do while paying mortgage? chances are it isnt.
also, maybe list things you like about yourself and things you dont like. wanna work on those you dont like?
1. body - food, water, shelter, sleep. check 2. safety - freedom, stability. check 3. love and belonging: friends & family. check 4. self realization: prestige, respect, achievements.. ???? that's your next step. 5. the dream: full complete realization of ones potential.
read up on this thing, check it out.
also maybe useful questions to ask:
1. how is my last month going to look like - how do I wanna die. invision it. 2. maybe think. what would you do if you only had week, month, year to live? maybe go do it? is it realy impossibly to do while paying mortgage? chances are it isnt.
also, maybe list things you like about yourself and things you dont like. wanna work on those you dont like?